How to Build Attachment When a Child Joins a New Family In the video, Neufeld Institute Faculty Bree Jordan reflects on a common experience for adults who find themselves caring for a child not born to them. As she notes, our role gives us responsibilities, but not the power to guide. That power comes from relationship. A child can be invited into a home without yet feeling at home—without feeling they matter, belong, or are truly wanted. This is the heart of our course 'Transplanting Children.'
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"Parenting is not a role. It's not a set of techniques. It's actually a relationship — and that relationship is rooted in human evolution. Every culture will adapt those evolutionary dynamics for its own purposes. But whenever cultures try to ignore the essence of that relationship, we get into trouble — and that's why we're having so much trouble with our kids these days: because we've lost the essence of the relationship." – Gabor Maté “I’m very happy to introduce the work of my colleague, fri
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156 reactions · 42 shares | Join leading expert in attachment, Dr. Gordon Neufeld, at our spring conference as he walks us through The Dance of Attachment which explores the pivotal role attachment plays in our everyday lives, and how we can support our children in building strong, secure relationships. | Institute of Child Psychology | Facebook
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"All children care. Young babies, toddlers care deeply, and they're in danger of losing their caring. If they don't lose their caring, and consideration is developed, voila! Empathy is the result. So empathy really is a wonderful fruit of healthy development, of well-being." - Dr. Gordon Neufeld, speaking about The Natural Roots of Empathy course We hear kids all the time: "Whatever." "It doesn't matter." "I don't care." Our kids come into this world caring. Why do they stop caring, and why does
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